{"id":10,"date":"2010-05-01T22:25:08","date_gmt":"2010-05-01T21:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/?p=10"},"modified":"2012-04-06T23:09:22","modified_gmt":"2012-04-06T22:09:22","slug":"utvide-foreldesesfristen-for-overgrepssaker-samfunnet-kan-laere-av-kirken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/2010\/05\/utvide-foreldesesfristen-for-overgrepssaker-samfunnet-kan-laere-av-kirken\/","title":{"rendered":"Mer om muligheten for \u00e5 utvide foreldesesfristen for overgrepssaker – samfunnet kan l\u00e6re av Kirken"},"content":{"rendered":"

For noen dager siden skrev jeg om at staten New York vurderer \u00e5 \u00e5pne for en utvidelse av foreldelsesfristen til 40 \u00e5r (for en 1-\u00e5rsperiode) for seksuelle overgrep. Hvis det skjer, leser vi p\u00e5 en av First Things’ blogger, the Anchoress<\/a>, kan storsamfunnet ha mye \u00e5 l\u00e6re av Den katolske Kirke (som i USA virkelig har l\u00e6rt den leksa):<\/p>\n

… the secular institutional world may soon find itself forced onto the same learning curve that has impacted and the Catholic Church over the past few years; that world too may find itself finally forced to confront the filth that too often stays hidden. The confrontation – painful as it may be – will ultimately be for the good.<\/p>\n

There is much to think about. Talk about \u201ccrisis\u201d and \u201copportunity!\u201d For many, going back forty years may seem excessive, but others may feel that the time-frame is warranted.<\/p>\n

As we begin to acknowledge that child sex abuse has long-infected the whole of society, and not just the churches, we will be forced to take a long and difficult look at ourselves. Church-sex stories may be sensational, but these others will quickly come to seem dreary, mostly because they will indict not just those oddball celibates and religious freaks, but our cops, our doctors, our teachers, our bureaucrats \u2013 you know, the \u201cnormal\u201d people, all around us, in our families, attending our barbecues and graduations, healing our wounds and teaching our kids.<\/p>\n

Extending the \u201copen window\u201d to include secular sex abuse cases will impact the whole of society. We will be invited to look in and-seeing the width and breadth of the problem-will be forced to ponder the human animal and the human soul in ways we have not, and would rather not. It may bring home some uncomfortable truths: that \u201csafety\u201d is relative; that human darkness is not limited to various \u201ctheys\u201d but seeps into the whole of \u201cus\u201d; that the tendency to look at the guilt of others has, perhaps, a root in our wish not to look at ourselves; that human brokenness is a constant and human righteousness is always imperfect.<\/font><\/i><\/p>\n

Fr. Finigan skriver ogs\u00e5 om dette<\/a> – og nevner eksempler fra Finland. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For noen dager siden skrev jeg om at staten New York vurderer \u00e5 \u00e5pne for en utvidelse av foreldelsesfristen til 40 \u00e5r (for en 1-\u00e5rsperiode) for seksuelle overgrep. Hvis det skjer, leser vi p\u00e5 en av First Things’ blogger, the Anchoress, kan storsamfunnet ha mye \u00e5 l\u00e6re av Den katolske Kirke (som i USA virkelig […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-generelt","category-katolsk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10\/revisions\/15"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}