{"id":7628,"date":"2012-11-21T08:23:23","date_gmt":"2012-11-21T07:23:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/?p=7628"},"modified":"2012-11-21T08:23:23","modified_gmt":"2012-11-21T07:23:23","slug":"sjokkerende-om-ungdomsledere-i-menigheter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/2012\/11\/sjokkerende-om-ungdomsledere-i-menigheter\/","title":{"rendered":"Sjokkerende om ungdomsledere i menigheter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Det foreg\u00e5r n\u00e5 en rettssak i Bergen, der en mann p\u00e5 20 \u00e5r er aklaget for sex med mindre\u00e5rige, og de unge jentene har mannen m\u00f8tt i menighetens konfirmantarbeid. Jeg ble sjokkert da jeg <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vl.no\/troogkirke\/leder-19-hadde-sex-med-konfirmant\/\">leste f\u00f8lgende i V\u00e5rt Land i g\u00e5r<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8230; (sluttet frivillig) &#8230; etter \u00e5 ha hatt et forhold til en mindre\u00e5rig jente i menigheten h\u00f8sten 2009. De var sammen da han var 18 og hun 15. Det endte med at mannen i 2010 m\u00e5tte slutte i menigheten for en periode, p\u00e5 grunn av dette kj\u00e6resteforholdet. Jentas foreldre ble ikke varslet.<\/p>\n<p>Avgangen skjedde frivillig og i samr\u00e5d med ledelsen i menigheten. Etter tre m\u00e5neder ble jeg oppringt og bedt om \u00e5 komme tilbake, sa han i retten.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00f8sten 2010, noen m\u00e5neder etter at han var tatt inn igjen i menigheten, innledet han et forhold til en ny jente. Hun var konfirmant i menigheten og var da 14 \u00e5r.<\/p>\n<p>Mannen fortalte i retten at det var helt vanlig at ungdomslederne i menigheten hadde forhold til konfirmantene.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vl.no\/troogkirke\/ledere-far-ikke-vare-kjareste-med-konfirmanter\/\">I dag skriver V\u00e5rt Land mer om dette<\/a>. Oversskriften er tydelig nok: &laquo;Ledere f\u00e5r ikke v\u00e6re kj\u00e6reste med konfirmanter&raquo;, men jeg syns ikke virkeligheten som beskrives i artikkelen er s\u00e6rlig betryggende.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Det foreg\u00e5r n\u00e5 en rettssak i Bergen, der en mann p\u00e5 20 \u00e5r er aklaget for sex med mindre\u00e5rige, og de unge jentene har mannen m\u00f8tt i menighetens konfirmantarbeid. Jeg ble sjokkert da jeg leste f\u00f8lgende i V\u00e5rt Land i g\u00e5r: &#8230; (sluttet frivillig) &#8230; etter \u00e5 ha hatt et forhold til en mindre\u00e5rig jente [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7628","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-generelt"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7628","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7628"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7628\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7629,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7628\/revisions\/7629"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7628"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7628"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7628"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}