{"id":9285,"date":"2014-10-04T22:39:55","date_gmt":"2014-10-04T20:39:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/?p=9285"},"modified":"2014-10-06T13:48:50","modified_gmt":"2014-10-06T11:48:50","slug":"om-katolsk-ekteskapsforberedelse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/2014\/10\/om-katolsk-ekteskapsforberedelse\/","title":{"rendered":"Om katolsk ekteskapsforberedelse"},"content":{"rendered":"

F\u00f8r bispesynoden om ekteskapet begynner, leser jeg en artikkel<\/a> som tar opp forberedelsen til katolske ekteskap. Katolikker skal l\u00e6re om ekteskapet gjennom hele sitt liv; i sin egen familie og i Kirkens katekese f.eks. f\u00f8r konfirmasjon, og s\u00e5 er det endelig et obligatorisk ekteskapskurs f\u00f8r man gifter seg. De kursene jeg har n\u00e5 best\u00e5r av 5×2 timer om katolsk ekteskapsteologi og noen praktiske tips om hvordan man kan f\u00e5 et godt ekteskap. Dette kurset kort tid f\u00f8r vielsen skal visst tas opp p\u00e5 bispesynoden:<\/p>\n

On the eve of the Synod of Bishops on the family, battle lines have been drawn on hot-button issues such as divorced and remarried Catholics and annulments. Yet little is being said about two reasons that often cause a marriage to fail in the first place: lack of preparation, and forced marriages.<\/p>\n

An approved marriage preparation program is one of the four usual requirements to marry in the Church, the others being a six-month notification to the parish priest, Catholic baptism of at least one of the partners, and documentation certifying the freedom to marry of both partners.<\/p>\n

Yet according to a preparatory document that will guide discussion for the synod, preparation is often more honored in the breach than the observance.<\/p>\n

Programs come in different formats, such as intensive weekends, a series of weekly encounters, on-line formation, and \u201cin-home\u201d mentor couple programs.<\/p>\n

They can be offered by priests, experts, and married couples, and the content of the programs varies from one country to another. The one thing they have in common is that they generally require less time than the hours spent by many brides choosing their wedding dresses.<\/p>\n

Compared to the lead-in time for the other two sacraments that require mandatory preparation \u2014 confirmation and holy orders \u2014 eight hours preparing for a lifetime commitment seems a fairly modest requirement. Yet as the synod document notes, it\u2019s often seen \u201cmore as an obligation than a freely undertaken opportunity for growth.\u201d<\/p>\n

Cardinal Ra\u00fal Eduardo Chiriboga of Ecuador certainly sees it that way. \u201cPreparing for marriage shouldn\u2019t be seen as part of the routine that couples have to go through to finally get married,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

Speaking in March, Chiriboga said the Church \u201cshould carefully examine these \u2018marriage prep classes,\u2019 so that they give couples a deep formation and take all the time that is necessary.\u201d …<\/p>\n

The Rev. H\u00e9ctor Franceschi, one of Rome\u2019s leading church lawyers at the University of the Holy Cross, said the Church needs to rethink the preparation for marriage. \u201cMany times, it\u2019s reduced to two or three lessons on theoretical issues, with priests not even knowing what the future spouses are being taught,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

Franceschi says the Church actually has rich teaching on family issues, with documents such as Familiaris Consortio, Mulieris Dignitatem, Gratissimam Sane, and Humanae Vitae. \u201cThe problem is that very few pastors and laymen have read them,\u201d he said. …..<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

F\u00f8r bispesynoden om ekteskapet begynner, leser jeg en artikkel som tar opp forberedelsen til katolske ekteskap. Katolikker skal l\u00e6re om ekteskapet gjennom hele sitt liv; i sin egen familie og i Kirkens katekese f.eks. f\u00f8r konfirmasjon, og s\u00e5 er det endelig et obligatorisk ekteskapskurs f\u00f8r man gifter seg. De kursene jeg har n\u00e5 best\u00e5r av […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9285","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-katolsk","category-teologi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9285","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9285"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9285\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9286,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9285\/revisions\/9286"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aomoi.net\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}