En sogneprest har sluttet å bruke ekstraordinære kommunionsmedhjelpere
– og han har gjort det med mye ‘frykt og beven’.
This past weekend I made one of those decisions in my two parishes that was very difficult, only in the sense that my own silly pride seems forever inclined to seek the approval of others. It was one of those decisions that I could’ve waited on … to see if many other parishes were doing this first, but that stupid “integrity” thing wouldn’t let me wait for that.
This weekend we made the move to refrain from the use of Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion. Thanks to this internet age in which we live, the appropriate teaching on this was hard to escape. Up to now, I hid behind my “ignorance”, but once I received the truth, the culpability of my dissent became more grave. I could no longer cower behind my lack of knowledge. My conscience got the better of me as I realized my dissent would now be direct. … (also, like the Holy Father, I place a kneeler in front of me to give our people the option of kneeling or standing) …
Of course, I spent the weekend giving our people the teaching (with love) on this, and the response (so far) has been anything from, “Thank you, SO MUCH, father … we have been waiting for years for this” to “I’m leaving the parish.” …
I’ll humbly take your prayers that I remain strong and full of God’s love and patience as I move from the easy “wait and see” position to the bloody front lines on this issue.
I USA kan man bruke både 10 og 20 ekstraordinære medhjelpere i en søndagsmesse, så bildet over er ganske representativt. I Norge er det på ingen måte slik, selv om det her også varierer en del fra menighet til menighet – og også hos burde man flere steder skjære ned på slike medhjelpere. I dokumentet Ecclesia de mysterio fra 1997 presiserte Vatikanet at slike ekstraordinære medhjelpere bare skal brukes når det er absolutt nødvendig. «Extraordinary ministers may …. also exercise this function at eucharistic celebrations where there are particularly large numbers of the faithful and which would be excessively prolonged because of an insufficient number of ordained ministers to distribute Holy Communion. This function is supplementary and extraordinary and must be exercised in accordance with the norm of law. …»
Les sogneprestens egen framstilling av hva han har gjort, og en ganske stor debatt om dette hos Father Z. Det som gjorde mest inntrykk på meg, er hvor ‘farlig’ det er for en prest å gjøre slike ting.